People who know me, know I don't believe in soul mates or fairy tales. I'm a big believer that what bugs us about other people is what we need to be working on ourselves. Switching my perspective and looking at myself and how I am responsible for my situation, my happiness and my sadness is one of the hardest things I do.
I'm grateful that Brandon gets this point, sometimes better than I do. We even had a conversation the other night, where he pointed out that we always have a choice. And regardless of our choices, can't I see the Lord's hand in it? It's true. Love and commitment is a daily choice we make, the hardest but most full filling choice I make everyday.
